It's odd, that in the middle of a cricis, you can find something waluable. ...Even if it feels like that everything's just about pulsing penises, crying women, hurted feelings, avoiding responsibilities, and all kind of panic-reactions...
...There can still be a treasure, hiding in the eye of a tornado. "What do you think is important in a relationship?" "Well, hard to tell..."
"...A certain freedom. And that one can trust the other person." "...common 'opinion-atmosphere' " "I would love it, if both were WILLING to work for the relationship!" / "...Even if it means, that sometimes you have to make a note in the calender saying 'making love every monday'." "What do you think is important?"
"...Hmm ...Well, I guess it is the freedom. I'm not very willing to compromise anymore." "...But. I know I could be a 'bit more flexible my self." / "Yeah, I think we all could." "I stll do believe in love. Despite of everything." "Yeah. Why wouldn't she? On a beautiful, care-free evening like this..." "...Here the three of us who have failed at that thing, are sitting, and still able to imagine, how it SHOULD be..."
Omituista melankoliaa / Odd melancholy:
"Mum called to tell me that she had found a wild cherry tree, and that for the first time in 17 years, she had spent 24hours totally alone at home."
Ja lopuksi reaktioni erään miespuolisen henkilön kommenttiin "Kyllä musta on suuri vääryys, että mä joudun sukupuoleni vuoksi maksamaan henkivakuutuksesta enemmän kuin naiset, vaikka naiset ihan omalla käytöksellään hankkiutuvat jatkuvasti tilanteisiin, joissa on vaarana tulla raiskatuksi." :
And this was my reaction to one gentlemans comment: " I do think it's a great injustice, that just because my sex, I have to pay more for my life insurance that women, even though women are getting raped all the time, just because of how they dress and behave themselves."
