"I have some advice for social interacting."
"Do NOT make remarks of other people's eating."
"First of all, it is not polite.
Second, every person has a right to feed and nourish themselves as they see fit.
Third, you really can't be sure what you trigger."
Many people can have an eating disorder.
One can't always see it outside.
HEALTHY? SICK? SICK? ??? WHAT?
Following comment...
"Are you seriously going to eat all that?"
...Can spark following behaviour:
"You sure did take your time in the loo!"
"I feel a little sick..."
Thinking: "I feel a tad woozy... Today I'll only drink a sip of water and eat one sunflower seed..."
"Also, making remarks of small amount of food or dietary habits is not polite."
"Yeah, but how about HEALTH!"
"That is still person's own business. There is no moral obligation to be healthy."
"Pfft, you are just over sensitive. And fat."
"And you have a small dick, and even that grows between your shoulders."
~*~
Kirjoittajan nootti: Se joka on oikeasti huolissaan toisen ihmisen terveydestä, voi ottaa tämän sivuun ja kysyä tämän terveydentilasta.
Jos joku kahvipöydässä rohmuaa kaikki pikkuleivät, on kyse enemmän käytöstavoista, ei syömistavoista.
Author's note: The one who is genuinely concerned of other person's health can take the person aside and ask about their health situation.
If someone hogs all the cookies at a party, then it is more of a manners problem, not an eating problem.
~*~
Kirjoittajan nootti II: Jälkikäteen ajatellen, toisen mulkusta tai sen koosta puhuminen on suhteellisen lapsellista ja vahvistaa sitä käsitystä, että toisen ihmisen sukupuolielimet tai niiden koko merkkaisivat jotenkin ihmisen paremmuutta tai huonoutta - mikä ei ole tietenkään totta. Vastaavaksi - ja toivottavasti paremmaksi - huomautukseksi voisi sopia paremmin "ja sulla näyttää olevan harteiden välissä silkkaa paskaa", jos toinen ihminen tulee arvostelemaan ruokavalintoja tai annoskokoa.
Author's note II: Thinking this afterwards, using other person's dick or dick size is relatively childish and validates the idea that other people's genitalia or size makes them either better or worse people, which is not true. As an alternative - hopefully a better - comeback one could use: "And you seem to have only shit in between your shoulders", in case of anyone making remarks of food choices or portion sizes.
